What To Do About “Deaths of Despair”?

I found Nikolas Kristof’s New York Times column, reacting to some unkind remarks about those who’ve died “deaths of despair”:

When my wife and I wrote about my old schoolmates who had died from “deaths of despair,” the reaction was sometimes ugly.

“They killed themselves,” scoffed Jonathan from St. Louis, Mo., in the reader comments. “It was self-inflicted.”

Ajax in Georgia was even harsher: “Natural selection weeding out those less fit for survival.”

Our essay, drawn from our new book, “Tightrope,” explored the disintegration of America’s working class through the kids on my old No. 6 school bus in Yamhill, Ore., particularly my neighbors the Knapps. The five Knapp kids were smart and talented, but Farlan died after years of drug and alcohol abuse, Zealan died in a house fire while passed out drunk, Nathan blew himself up cooking meth, Rogena died of hepatitis after drug use, and Keylan survived partly because he had spent 13 years in the Oregon State Penitentiary.

Working-class men and women like them, of every shade, increasingly are dying of “deaths of despair” — from drugs, alcohol and suicide. That’s why life expectancy in the United States, for the first time in a century, has declined for three years in a row.

Plenty of readers responded with compassion. But there was a prickly scorn from some that deserves a response because it reflects an ideology that underlies so many failed policies. It arises from the myth that we live in a land of limitless opportunity and that those who struggle have simply made “bad choices” and failed to muster “personal responsibility.” Dr. Ben Carson, who grew up poor and black in Detroit and is now the nation’s housing secretary, has described poverty as “more of a choice than anything else.”

a mixture of things with which I agreed and things I didn’t. For example, I agree that it is wrong to dismiss those who have despaired. And consider this passage:

What changed was diminishing access to good jobs, reduced commitment to investment in human capital, a hurricane of addictive drugs (some peddled by the pharmaceutical industry), and the rise of a harsh social narrative that vilified those left behind — a narrative that workers often internalized. Workers lost their dignity and hope, and that exacerbated the spiral of self-medication and self-destruction, of loneliness and despair that swept through my No. 6 bus.

I agree that we aren’t producing enough “good jobs” to provide them for all of the people who are here and all the people who are coming here. But I disagree that we have a “reduced commitment to investment in human capital”, viz.

and

Point to the declines in those graphs. Quite to the contrary they illustrate increases at every level. We spend more on education than nearly any country. We spend more on health care than any other country. Our problem is not a lack of commitment.

I’m unprepared to say that personal responsibility has less to do with the despair than the trend to reduce guilt and shame as motivating forces in our society or than the decline of all institutions other than the government—marriage, family, church, and social institutions of all sorts.

The cure for despair is hope. In my view the most important things the government can do to instill hope is to reverse the many things it has done over the last half century that have produced the present situation including the financialization of the economy, mass immigration, and too great a dependency on imports.

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  • TarsTarkas Link

    Most of the education $ increase has been for ‘infrastructure’ and administrative staffing, not education. Teaching salaries, especially at the college level, have not significantly increased in decades, nor have the numbers of actual teachers per student at many levels gone up.

    I agree as I have in the past with you how the outsourcing of production in this country has had a tremendous effect on the populace, especially in ‘flyover’ country, not just economically but morally and emotionally. I would be careful with the definition of ‘good’ jobs, I think ‘meaningful’ jobs would be a better term. In my experience being able to take pride in one’s work can be a partial compensation for pay level. Man does not live on mammon alone (although it helps a lot!).

    The lack of meaningful employment, even in higher-paying jobs, has led to a plethora of thrill-seeking, whether it be physical (sky-diving, fight clubs, tide-podding), electronically (video-gaming), or chemically (drugs). Promotion of doomsday scenarios if ‘X’ doesn’t happen, a declining marriage rate and birth rate and the resultant loss of family life, and the promotion and adulation of perversions also have contributed. There are a lot of other contributing factors, including male-shaming and social mobbing. When life is pointless, why bother living? Better to end it all, if not spectacularly to get your nano-second of infamy, then quietly, to virtuously reduce your evil Gaea-destroying carbon footprint.

  • steve Link

    What do we spend on workers after they leave school? We know that businesses arent investing in workers anymore. My sense is that this is more related to losing meaningful work, good paying work then not being able to find anything decent.

    That said, it looks like the deaths of despair are concentrated among middle aged white women living in the South.

    https://www.motherjones.com/kevin-drum/2020/01/deaths-of-despair-are-rising-only-for-women-in-the-south/

    Steve

  • I’m open to your explanation for that. My own view is that it’s closely related to the decline of fundamental institutions.

  • steve Link

    Southern Men? (J/K) I have looked at his numbers only briefly and the look OK but I would like to have a confirmed analysis before I am 100% sure this is correct, but assuming it is I think your idea has merit. I would also add in narcotics and other drugs. I would like to see data on female labor force participation by state, social services available, church attendance, etc before making any real guesses.

    Steve

  • Grey Shambler Link

    Could it be that white trash women are the only trash group out of jail long enough to ruin their health? Or at least skew statistics?
    https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/wonk/wp/2016/02/26/america-has-locked-up-so-many-black-people-it-has-warped-our-sense-of-reality/

  • Guarneri Link

    Blaming the local issues of the day for social or personal issues is a common mistake. Hence it appears Mr Kristof may need his suppositions to conveniently support his political points. However, substance abuse has been around for as long as substances have been around. Its prevalence only fluctuates over time.

    For those interested, the psychologists who study this stuff formalize it by referring to “maladaptive behaviors.” What maladaptive behaviors? More than just substances, they include gambling, eating, spending, sex, now excessive social media participation etc. And maladaptive to what? Almost all rooted in fear, the two most common being the fear of not being included, and second the fear of not being good enough. Both are learned; both almost always derive from childhood development. And that’s been around for a long time too. The literature on the subject is robust.

    So Dave poked a hole in the human investment angle as an example. But I strongly suspect he has put his finger on a key issue. The decline of supportive institutions. That’s where people in need used to go. Government has been no satisfactory replacement; its no church. I have believed this for years.

    I’m not saying that a down on its luck town won’t experience a meth problem as the jobs move away. But what the nanny government types miss is that their policies and their “cut them a check” attitudes are contributors, and no substitute for traditional institutions.

  • steve Link

    Assuming Drum’s numbers are correct (he is a Cal Tech guy) you need an explanation for why loss of institutions is affecting middle aged white women in the South much more than anywhere else. One possible explanation, which you won’t want to hear, is that elsewhere there is a better social safety net, probably provided by government. Or, the remaining churches in the North and West do a much better job at providing help than churches in the South. (I find the latter unlikely.) Maybe there is more social stigma associated with asking for help in the South?

    ” However, substance abuse has been around for as long as substances have been around. Its prevalence only fluctuates over time.”

    Yes, but this time is really different when it comes to deaths. Narcotics can kill you just by taking a bit too much. You dont need to do anything else. With pot you might OD on brownies. With Meth you might go get in a fight, but generally speaking you need to do something else and it is not so much the direct effect of the drug that kills you. (Yes, I understand that with Meth and cocaine you can have a fatal OD and it does happen, but we just dont see it like we have with opioids.)

    Steve

  • It’s possible that the “safety net” is better for women in the North. Another unmentioned possibility is that the expectations of women with respect to various social institutions are higher in the South.

  • Guarneri Link

    You are just talking about the efficacy (ugh!) of the drug, not the motivations.

  • steve Link

    Drew- If the motivations were the same but the efficacy (death) for narcotics was much higher, then we could have much higher death rates. Opioids are so much better at killing people that I would lay much more of this on them rather than changes in institutions or social structure, but since it seems to mostly affect just one very specific group I dont think it is a general drug effect. If that were the case I would expect this to more broadly affect many age groups and both sexes.

    Steve

  • Grey Shambler Link

    Seriously, I wonder what states constitute “the south”. This topic makes me think of the 2009 documentary “The wild and wonderful Whites of West Virginia”. This family whose ways were showcased are now almost entirely dead, save one man who has been in prison. It may be that White people in this culture haven’t changed but that women have caught up. It’s now not unusual for young mothers to huff gas or be drunk in public. Women used to be held to a higher standard than men re acceptable behavior. What to do? Government is not designed in a free country to do much. Public ad campaigns, billboards, sure, why not, but I think that’s already being done. Public shaming or shunning would be effective but as it stands popular entertainment encourages Nihilism and debauchery. It’s gonna be a long way back from the brink for these people if it ever gets better, and that’s where shunning comes in. You can’t just”say no to drugs”, you have to separate yourself and your family from the culture in order to survive.

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